Toks Ayinla


I'm Toks. 



Because rock bottom has a way of building faith

'If you take the energy you put into others and put it into yourself, you'll be great'

This was the statement that I heard and wrote down as I was in the middle of a God, please make it stop journaling session at the lowest point in my life. When life makes takes you to a dark place and you hear words of hope, every single part of you: Mind, Body, and Spirit conspire in agreement because anything is better than being stuck. My purpose drives everything I do, but it's my faith that takes the wheel when fear or any other emotional road block tries to creep up. I believe in God, I believe in myself, I believe in better, I believe in love and I believe in people. Hope at rock bottom is what took me from make it stop to can't stop won't stop with clarity and purpose.

You tell I'm Too Much as if it's a bad thing, as if the abundance I possess is too big to fit in this world, when in fact...

...It's only too big to fit in yours.

I'm a writer, speaker, consultant and an unapologetic table shaker. I make it a point to refine my gifts and I believe in bold self-promotion. Who do I think I am? A woman who is determined to operate at my full potential while actively empowering others to do the same. I'm committed to learning and I'm willing to do the work, CONSISTENTLY. I have an Honours Double Major in Psychology and Economics, a Professional Certificate in Public Administration & Public Law, as well as a Certificate in Solutions-Focused Brief Therapy & Counselling; I'm what you'd call a forever student. Doers do things, and I get things done! Is it a lot? Maybe. But I wouldn't have it any other way.


Because purpose requires consistent action


Because what's the point of all this growing if you don't share?

'When you've made it through something that people are still in the midst of, lend a hand'

I'm here to serve. If you're looking for positivity, insight, motivation, advice and more, you're in the right place. Take a look around, I'm confident that there's something here for you. If after looking you can't find it (HIGHLY UNLIKELY), send me a message and I'll be glad to help. I'm building a community of focused, purpose driven people who want better and are ready to put in the work to get it.  

Areas of Expertise 

  • Self Empowerment
  • Motivation & Self Confidence 
  • Equity, Representation & Inclusion
  • Anti-Racism
  • Brand Identity 
  • Business Structuring & Planning
  • Effective Goal Setting 
  • Shameless Self Promotion & Pitching 
  • Self Publishing